The Church of "Attaboy".

The Church of Attaboy doesn't exist.  That's a truth which is universal, worldly and more precisely evident in every house of worship; regardless of theological differences.

I want to start one.

I want a place (a physical dwelling) or recognizable static location where I can join others for zealous
validation of a job well done.  It's a simple request.

My husband has just modified his news app on his phone to the BBC.  He is tired of the negative press. He's sick of the politicking.  Really…who are you kidding?  Neither party nominee is qualified for the oval office.  Crook (with money and connections) vs. megalomaniacal racist (with money and connections).  There's not an honest candidate.  I'm not voting.

Sorry for the rant…it's been waiting to come out for a long time…

Negative, horrific news bombards the inquiring mind. Even those of us who are not constantly tuned in
are aware. That's in THIS country. We are being watched and redefined.  It's not the impression
I want to give.

Where to go to escape, recharge and not give up? It's not to worship as far as I know and that's what needs changing.

We all need recognition and appreciation for being us.  Those of us who follow the golden rule needs
support and accolades. What happened to kindness? What happened to respect?

In the church of attaboy, we would celebrate the everyday joys.  We would count and applaud the number of times we smiled at someone. We would  "happy dance" for each unselfish kindness toward another. We would sing silly songs of childhood because it is joyous.
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No need to meditate or atone, no required confessions. There would be no absolutions or hail Mary's.
No commandments, no doctrine, no worship.

Celebration, continuous happiness, contagious joy without constraint; without reminders that
what we do is not enough.  Truth be told, it's more than enough.

Can you implement this simple ideal?  Of course!  Start with your heart with mind to follow.
Be unafraid to initiate random acts of kindness because it's the right and honorable thing to do.

Be gentle and gentile. Be a force for peace. Come for validation and veneration.  I hope to see you there.